Tithing, Not Tipping
Luke 19:1-10; 20:20-25, 21:1-4 | Justin Reed | March 16, 2025
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All of us have different feelings and attitudes when it comes to giving money to a local church. For some of us, it’s a regular and assumed part of our discipleship. For others, it’s a financial goal. And for others, it’s an exploitative way for churches to get more money. Regardless of how we feel about tithing, it’s difficult to be a generous person who lives out the way of Jesus without a regular rhythm of supporting the Body of Christ. In 2 Corinthians, we see a picture of what it looks like to become a community that generously tithes their money for the sake of the Kingdom. The grace of God allows them to give above and beyond what might seem possible. At Bethel, we find it helpful to think of the tithe as a starting point, not a stopping point. To practice tithing is to practice letting go of control, putting our trust in God, and participating in the Kingdom work that God has called us to.
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1. Introduction: The Tension of Generosity
• Pastor Justin begins with a personal story about realizing how many subscriptions he pays for without hesitation (Netflix, Disney+, Amazon Prime, etc.).
• Key Thought: We don’t hesitate to spend on things that bring us comfort, but when it comes to generosity, we suddenly want to “pray about it.”
• Challenge: What if generosity was an intentional part of our lives, just like our monthly subscriptions?
2. Defining Generosity
• Working Definition:“Generosity is living like disciples who trust the God of abundance by giving their tithes as stewards of God’s kingdom.”
• Key Truths from Previous Weeks:
• Greed is a poison that distorts our desires.
• The antidote to greed is generosity.
• We are called to have an abundance mindset rather than a scarcity mindset—trusting in God’s provision.
3. Biblical Examples of Generosity
A. Zacchaeus’ Transformation (Luke 19:1-10)
• Zacchaeus was a wealthy tax collector who encountered Jesus andimmediately chose generosity.
• He pledged to give half his possessions to the poor and repay those he had wronged fourfold.
• Key Lesson: True followers of Jesus become generous people—not out of obligation, but as a response to God’s grace.
B. Giving to Caesar & Giving to God (Luke 20:20-26)
• Pharisees try to trap Jesus with a question about taxes.
• Jesus responds: “Render to Caesar what is Caesar’s and to God what is God’s.”
• Key Lesson: If we bear God’s image, then our whole lives belong to Him—including our finances.
C. The Widow’s Offering (Luke 21:1-4)
• Jesus contrasts wealthy people giving large sums with a poor widow who gave two small coins—all she had.
•Key Lesson: True generosity isn’t about the amount—it’s about faith, sacrifice, and trust in God’s provision.
4. The Next Level: Grace-Fueled Generosity (2 Corinthians 8-9)
• Paul commends the Macedonian churches for givingjoyfully and sacrificially, even in poverty.
• Equation That Doesn’t Make Sense in the World’s Economy:
• Abundant joy + Extreme poverty = Overflowing generosity
• Key Thought: Grace doesn’t just free us from sin—it frees us to be generous.
Tithing vs. Grace-Based Generosity
• Tithing asks:“How much do I need to give?”
• Grace-Based Generosity asks:“How much do I really need to keep?”
• Generosity isn’t about duty—it’s about delight.
• 2 Corinthians 9:7: “God loves a cheerful giver.” (Greek word hilarion = hilarious)
• Key Challenge: Giving should be joyful, not something we do out of obligation.
6. The Gospel as the Ultimate Example of Generosity
• Jesus is the ultimate model of generosity—He gave everything for us on the cross.
• When we recognize how much we have received, it frees us to give freely to others.
• Final Thought:“Grace gives us permission to give less, but the power to give more.”
Conclusion & Call to Action
• Generosity isn’t about a percentage—it’s about trust.
• Ask yourself: “Am I holding on too tightly to what God has given me?”
• Step into joyful generosity, trusting that when we give, God provides.
Group Guide
Start with one prayer at a time. Read the question, then pause—give yourself time to sit with it. Pay attention to your thoughts, emotions, and any resistance that rises up.
When have you felt the most joy in giving?
Was it a time you gave financially, with your time, or by helping someone?
How did it impact you and the person you gave to?
Group Discussion Questions
1. Why do you think Zacchaeus’ first response to Jesus was to give back generously? Have you ever experienced a time when following Jesus changed how you viewed money or possessions?
2. Jesus’ answer was deeper than just paying taxes—what do you think He was really saying? If you belong to God, what does it mean to give Him your whole life? How does this challenge how you manage your resources, time, and priorities?
3. Why do you think Jesus honored the widow’s tiny offering over the large gifts of the wealthy? How does this story redefine generosity beyond just an amount of money? What are some ways you can give sacrificially, even if you don’t feel like you have much to give?
4. The Macedonian church was in deep poverty but still gave joyfully and generously. What does that say about generosity? Have you ever given when it wasn’t convenient or comfortable? What happened?
5. What does it mean to shift from asking “How much do I need to give?” to “How much do I really need to keep?”
6. What type of giver are you? Static, Sporadic, Systematic, or Sacraficial? Are you content with your level of generosity?
Share Our Stories
The Generosity Table
March 23
We’re coming together for The Generosity Table, a special gathering where we’ll share a meal, celebrate what God has done, and commit ourselves to living open-handed for His kingdom.
This isn’t a fundraiser or a stewardship banquet—it’s a family moment to reflect on how generosity has shaped our lives and the lives of those around us. One of the most powerful ways we grow in generosity is by sharing our stories—testimonies of how giving, receiving, and trusting God have transformed us.
Do you have a story of generosity? Whether it’s a moment where God provided, a step of faith in giving, or how generosity impacted your life, we’d love for you to share it! Let us know by filling out this form.